Comments on: Abusive Relationships: Should I Stay or Should I Go? http://docinthebiz.com/blog/abusive-relationships-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go/ THINK WELL to FEEL WELL...It's All About Being Emotionally Healthy! Fri, 30 Jul 2010 14:04:22 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Web Hosting http://docinthebiz.com/blog/abusive-relationships-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go/#comment-13862 Web Hosting Thu, 23 Apr 2009 07:11:47 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=94#comment-13862 I did really like your post... Also can you suggest me any business hosting company for corporate website? I did really like your post… Also can you suggest me any business hosting company for corporate website?

]]> By: Doc KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/abusive-relationships-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go/#comment-12353 Doc KC Wed, 08 Apr 2009 13:46:10 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=94#comment-12353 Dear Shirley, I will certainly take a look at that that URL link, but will respect your wishes and will not post it here. Please look for my response on your site. Thank you for reaching out to me. Together, I do hope we can help this woman in need. All my very best, Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com www.GLCzone.com Dear Shirley,

I will certainly take a look at that that URL link, but will respect your wishes and will not post it here. Please look for my response on your site. Thank you for reaching out to me. Together, I do hope we can help this woman in need.

All my very best,
Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
http://www.GLCzone.com

]]> By: Doc KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/abusive-relationships-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go/#comment-12352 Doc KC Wed, 08 Apr 2009 13:44:04 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=94#comment-12352 Dear Dan, It would be my pleasure to link up with your website. Any educational information we can share with others is wonderful. Please view www.GLCzone.com as well and add your blogs there. Please encourage other health blog writers to visit that site as well. All my best, Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com www.GLCzone.com Dear Dan,

It would be my pleasure to link up with your website. Any educational information we can share with others is wonderful.

Please view http://www.GLCzone.com as well and add your blogs there. Please encourage other health blog writers to visit that site as well.

All my best,
Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
http://www.GLCzone.com

]]> By: Shirley http://docinthebiz.com/blog/abusive-relationships-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go/#comment-11732 Shirley Wed, 01 Apr 2009 15:52:55 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=94#comment-11732 I have been writing about child abuse and my experience with it. A woman from the Middle East who is Islamic needs some help and since I don't have a degree and all I know is American stuff I need help. The URL I gave is where the comment is. I don't want to mention the username here though. I have been writing about child abuse and my experience with it. A woman from the Middle East who is Islamic needs some help and since I don’t have a degree and all I know is American stuff I need help. The URL I gave is where the comment is. I don’t want to mention the username here though.

]]> By: Dan http://docinthebiz.com/blog/abusive-relationships-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go/#comment-11560 Dan Mon, 30 Mar 2009 20:04:36 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=94#comment-11560 Dear Dr. Kelley, I just started a new site at www.danmedicalreport.com. We are an independent medical news site updated daily; News on cancer, heart, diet, children, drugs, health care. Links to other sites including: medical news, hospitals, doctors' blog, alternative medicine blogs, and patients' blogs. I would be happy to link your blog on my site. Would you consider linking mine to yours? All the best, Dan Dear Dr. Kelley,

I just started a new site at http://www.danmedicalreport.com. We are an independent medical news site updated daily; News on cancer, heart, diet, children, drugs, health care. Links to other sites including: medical news, hospitals, doctors’ blog, alternative medicine blogs, and patients’ blogs.

I would be happy to link your blog on my site. Would you consider linking mine to yours?

All the best,

Dan

]]> By: Doc KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/abusive-relationships-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go/#comment-8892 Doc KC Sun, 01 Feb 2009 15:03:03 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=94#comment-8892 Dear Reggie Greene, Thank you so much for joining us here and sending in your comment. We are so glad to have you! Time is indeed a precious resource and although sometimes we would like to stop the clock; we know that will never happen. Time IS limited, as you say. We would like to think that everyone will use each minute of their day in the best possible and most productive way, but unfortunately it doesn’t always work out that way. Depression, anxiety, etc. are life altering disorders that can certainly leave people paralyzed in many ways, when not treated. This definitely can decrease the quality of ones life. I think the two questions you ask your friends are great ways to get them to think about their relationships and whether or not they are right for them. You seem like a very good friend and a very wise man. Again, thank you for sharing your thoughts and commenting here. All my best, Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com www.GLCzone.com Dear Reggie Greene,

Thank you so much for joining us here and sending in your comment. We are so glad to have you!

Time is indeed a precious resource and although sometimes we would like to stop the clock; we know that will never happen. Time IS limited, as you say. We would like to think that everyone will use each minute of their day in the best possible and most productive way, but unfortunately it doesn’t always work out that way. Depression, anxiety, etc. are life altering disorders that can certainly leave people paralyzed in many ways, when not treated. This definitely can decrease the quality of ones life.

I think the two questions you ask your friends are great ways to get them to think about their relationships and whether or not they are right for them. You seem like a very good friend and a very wise man. Again, thank you for sharing your thoughts and commenting here.

All my best,
Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
http://www.GLCzone.com

]]> By: Reggie Greene / The Logistician http://docinthebiz.com/blog/abusive-relationships-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go/#comment-8887 Reggie Greene / The Logistician Sun, 01 Feb 2009 10:55:54 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=94#comment-8887 There's something else from my perspective, namely, "how one wants to spend their time." Time is a precious resource, and it is limited. Each day, we should be focused on using it in the most productive and positive fashion we are capable. Perhaps, when you find yourself in these situations, you might ask yourself, "Is this the best utilization of my time over which I have control?" Second issue. Lots of my female friends will sometimes ask me about some issue in their relationships with other men. Each time I respond, I ask them two questions: (1) Do you feel that he respects you; and (2) Does he make you feel good about yourself. The best to you. There’s something else from my perspective, namely, “how one wants to spend their time.” Time is a precious resource, and it is limited. Each day, we should be focused on using it in the most productive and positive fashion we are capable. Perhaps, when you find yourself in these situations, you might ask yourself, “Is this the best utilization of my time over which I have control?”

Second issue. Lots of my female friends will sometimes ask me about some issue in their relationships with other men. Each time I respond, I ask them two questions: (1) Do you feel that he respects you; and (2) Does he make you feel good about yourself.

The best to you.

]]> By: Doc KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/abusive-relationships-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go/#comment-8745 Doc KC Fri, 23 Jan 2009 01:17:44 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=94#comment-8745 Dear Laurie, Yes, these situations are indeed frightening to outsiders who can look in with a different perspective as we are not emotionally attached to the abusive person. Thank you for your wonderful comment. It is so insightful and helpful. I love your ideas on the difference between forgiveness and acceptance and the repercussions of each. I truly hope she will be back to read what you wrote here. That is why I love comments from others about the questions and issues people bring to me. I know I can always count on you to share your very helpful thoughts. Thank you again. All my best, Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com www.GLCzone.com Dear Laurie,

Yes, these situations are indeed frightening to outsiders who can look in with a different perspective as we are not emotionally attached to the abusive person.

Thank you for your wonderful comment. It is so insightful and helpful. I love your ideas on the difference between forgiveness and acceptance and the repercussions of each. I truly hope she will be back to read what you wrote here. That is why I love comments from others about the questions and issues people bring to me. I know I can always count on you to share your very helpful thoughts. Thank you again.

All my best,
Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
http://www.GLCzone.com

]]> By: Doc KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/abusive-relationships-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go/#comment-8744 Doc KC Fri, 23 Jan 2009 01:17:22 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=94#comment-8744 Dear Dr. Roger, You are correct and what you write is exactly how I practice. It is not our place as psychotherapists to tell anyone what to do with their lives. We can give well educated factual information and share what the experts say, while at the same time, being there to listen with empathetic ears. That to me makes for the best therapists. All my best, Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com www.GLCzone.com Dear Dr. Roger,

You are correct and what you write is exactly how I practice. It is not our place as psychotherapists to tell anyone what to do with their lives. We can give well educated factual information and share what the experts say, while at the same time, being there to listen with empathetic ears. That to me makes for the best therapists.

All my best,
Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
http://www.GLCzone.com

]]> By: Doc KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/abusive-relationships-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go/#comment-8743 Doc KC Fri, 23 Jan 2009 01:16:59 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=94#comment-8743 Dear Dale, Thank YOU so much for this comment and you’re very welcome. Similar to what I told Elizabeth, nothing makes me happier than to know I can make a difference for the better in someone’s day or even their life. All my best, Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com www.GLCzone.com Dear Dale,

Thank YOU so much for this comment and you’re very welcome. Similar to what I told Elizabeth, nothing makes me happier than to know I can make a difference for the better in someone’s day or even their life.

All my best,
Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
http://www.GLCzone.com

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