Comments on: Are There Bad People? http://docinthebiz.com/blog/are-there-bad-people/ THINK WELL to FEEL WELL...It's All About Being Emotionally Healthy! Thu, 04 Dec 2008 18:59:15 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Dr. KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/are-there-bad-people/#comment-1100 Dr. KC Sun, 20 Jul 2008 22:51:09 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=70#comment-1100 Dear YogaforCynics, I hear you loudly and clearly and have to agree. As I see it, human nature does in fact “define people by their worst behaviors” as you stated. Not always, however, as we can find great forgiving friendships and relationships (no matter what kind) that love unconditionally. That means, loving because of flaws and not despite them. That means forgiving. That means always seeing the good in the other person no matter what they may have done to upset us. Our “mistakes” as people may call them, are NOT what define us. I do wish more people would understand that. Thank you for your comment. Great to see you here! Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com www.GLCzone.com Dear YogaforCynics,

I hear you loudly and clearly and have to agree. As I see it, human nature does in fact “define people by their worst behaviors” as you stated. Not always, however, as we can find great forgiving friendships and relationships (no matter what kind) that love unconditionally. That means, loving because of flaws and not despite them. That means forgiving. That means always seeing the good in the other person no matter what they may have done to upset us. Our “mistakes” as people may call them, are NOT what define us. I do wish more people would understand that.

Thank you for your comment. Great to see you here!

Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
http://www.GLCzone.com

]]> By: YogaforCynics http://docinthebiz.com/blog/are-there-bad-people/#comment-1099 YogaforCynics Sun, 20 Jul 2008 22:41:08 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=70#comment-1099 It's funny (well, actually not so funny) that people always tend to be definied by their worst behaviors. You can have a wonderful friend for years but then, when that friend does you wrong, suddenly it's "I'm finally seeing the real you," with all of the positive actions, apparently, counting for nothing. Ultimately, it's simply, tragically easier for us to divide everyone into binary categories than to see people in all of their complexity. It’s funny (well, actually not so funny) that people always tend to be definied by their worst behaviors. You can have a wonderful friend for years but then, when that friend does you wrong, suddenly it’s “I’m finally seeing the real you,” with all of the positive actions, apparently, counting for nothing. Ultimately, it’s simply, tragically easier for us to divide everyone into binary categories than to see people in all of their complexity.

]]> By: Dr. KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/are-there-bad-people/#comment-1087 Dr. KC Sun, 20 Jul 2008 16:04:33 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=70#comment-1087 Dear Lim Ee Hai, We, as therapists, life coaches or anyone interested in self improvement always agree that the best way to live a happy and healthy life is to try to stay positive as much of the time as we can. And when we DO start to feel, ”weak, silly, or bad” as you phrased it, we need to break out of it, change our thought patterns and revert back to positive thoughts and feelings. Thank you for your very insightful comment! Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com www.GLCzone.com Dear Lim Ee Hai,

We, as therapists, life coaches or anyone interested in self improvement always agree that the best way to live a happy and healthy life is to try to stay positive as much of the time as we can. And when we DO start to feel, ”weak, silly, or bad” as you phrased it, we need to break out of it, change our thought patterns and revert back to positive thoughts and feelings.

Thank you for your very insightful comment!

Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
http://www.GLCzone.com

]]> By: Lim Ee Hai http://docinthebiz.com/blog/are-there-bad-people/#comment-1086 Lim Ee Hai Sun, 20 Jul 2008 15:54:54 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=70#comment-1086 Bad or good is relative. Being branded "bad" can be "good" if the reference changes. However, self-claiming that one is "bad" is a very sad case of self-destruction. Nobody should claim to be weak, silly, bad or otherwise. We can always improve by staying positive. I believe you agree with me, Doc. Bad or good is relative. Being branded “bad” can be “good” if the reference changes. However, self-claiming that one is “bad” is a very sad case of self-destruction. Nobody should claim to be weak, silly, bad or otherwise. We can always improve by staying positive. I believe you agree with me, Doc.

]]> By: Dr. KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/are-there-bad-people/#comment-940 Dr. KC Sun, 13 Jul 2008 16:52:34 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=70#comment-940 Dear Hisham, It’s my pleasure to bring informative and helpful articles to my readers! Thank you for your words! Yes, religion does often play a big role in how a person may feel if they go against something they have been taught. I try not to touch on religion too much, however, as people tend to have their beliefs and feel very strongly either way. When I speak to someone one on one, we can come to a determination about how their faith affects them, however, it’s much more difficult to do in a forum. People in general, as you say, have choices, and hopefully they make good ones, to not only make themselves feel happy and remain healthy, but to help others as well. Thank you for your comment. Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com www.GLCzone.com Dear Hisham,

It’s my pleasure to bring informative and helpful articles to my readers! Thank you for your words!

Yes, religion does often play a big role in how a person may feel if they go against something they have been taught. I try not to touch on religion too much, however, as people tend to have their beliefs and feel very strongly either way. When I speak to someone one on one, we can come to a determination about how their faith affects them, however, it’s much more difficult to do in a forum.

People in general, as you say, have choices, and hopefully they make good ones, to not only make themselves feel happy and remain healthy, but to help others as well.

Thank you for your comment.

Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
http://www.GLCzone.com

]]> By: Hisham http://docinthebiz.com/blog/are-there-bad-people/#comment-936 Hisham Sun, 13 Jul 2008 16:25:21 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=70#comment-936 When ever I come back to your blog I found something useful, i thank you for your great articles. I agree with you that there is no body's "bad", and we came to this life "good persons" by default, and it's all about bad choices which makes anyone bad... I think also that religious people feel they are bad bad than other non-believers, because the lake of religion understanding! anyone can chance this by doing good things and change themselves, as we all know that people are welling to forget the past if a person turns and change his way. This is what I think! and thanks again. When ever I come back to your blog I found something useful, i thank you for your great articles.

I agree with you that there is no body’s “bad”, and we came to this life “good persons” by default, and it’s all about bad choices which makes anyone bad…

I think also that religious people feel they are bad bad than other non-believers, because the lake of religion understanding!

anyone can chance this by doing good things and change themselves, as we all know that people are welling to forget the past if a person turns and change his way.

This is what I think! and thanks again.

]]> By: Dr. KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/are-there-bad-people/#comment-921 Dr. KC Sat, 12 Jul 2008 22:01:23 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=70#comment-921 Dear Fancy Sweden, I just as glad as you that you found your way to DOCintheBiz and my blog. I thank David for being the catalyst in your discovery. He’s a wonderful contribution to the blogging community! Please keep reading and posting whenever you would like. You’re always welcome here! Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com www.GLCzone.com Dear Fancy Sweden,

I just as glad as you that you found your way to DOCintheBiz and my blog. I thank David for being the catalyst in your discovery. He’s a wonderful contribution to the blogging community!

Please keep reading and posting whenever you would like. You’re always welcome here!

Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
http://www.GLCzone.com

]]> By: FANCY SWEDEN http://docinthebiz.com/blog/are-there-bad-people/#comment-912 FANCY SWEDEN Sat, 12 Jul 2008 08:36:06 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=70#comment-912 Hello Dr. KC Find my way to you by David. What a great side you have and whit really thoughtful questions. I don't think the people or the living can be bad for me The acting is bad. I have bean scrolling and reading round and up and down on your site and I'm glad that I found you. Hello Dr. KC

Find my way to you by David.

What a great side you have and whit really thoughtful questions. I don’t think the people or the living can be bad for me The acting is bad.
I have bean scrolling and reading round and up and down on your site and I’m glad that I found you.

]]> By: Dr. KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/are-there-bad-people/#comment-876 Dr. KC Tue, 08 Jul 2008 14:20:38 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=70#comment-876 Dear BK, I think you have a lovely attitude about people. It’s very healthy to want to seek out the positive in people, not the negative. I agree with you… if we can only see the bad qualities of someone, this will often “cloud” anything good. Thank you for your comment. Please keep reading and posting. Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com www.GLCzone.com Dear BK,

I think you have a lovely attitude about people. It’s very healthy to want to seek out the positive in people, not the negative. I agree with you… if we can only see the bad qualities of someone, this will often “cloud” anything good.

Thank you for your comment.
Please keep reading and posting.

Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
http://www.GLCzone.com

]]> By: BK http://docinthebiz.com/blog/are-there-bad-people/#comment-871 BK Tue, 08 Jul 2008 04:47:01 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=70#comment-871 I agree with you when you said, "Are There Bad People? I don’t think so. Only bad choices and behaviors which people can learn how to correct." Basically I am a person who choose to believe in the goodness of people. And I always want to seek out the positive side of people. What we choose to focus on amplify. So if we choose to focus on the negative aspects of people, they most certainly cloud the positive aspects. I agree with you when you said, “Are There Bad People? I don’t think so. Only bad choices and behaviors which people can learn how to correct.” Basically I am a person who choose to believe in the goodness of people. And I always want to seek out the positive side of people. What we choose to focus on amplify. So if we choose to focus on the negative aspects of people, they most certainly cloud the positive aspects.

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