Comments on: Building Self Worth and Loving Yourself http://docinthebiz.com/blog/building-self-worth-and-loving-yourself/ THINK WELL to FEEL WELL...It's All About Being Emotionally Healthy! Tue, 06 Jan 2009 01:55:18 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Dr. KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/building-self-worth-and-loving-yourself/#comment-4461 Dr. KC Sun, 05 Oct 2008 15:58:35 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=86#comment-4461 Dear Jennifer, Your words are beautiful as well. I'm so glad to hear you found what you needed to be on a great, healthy, and happy pathway to peace. Thank you for your comment. All my best, Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com www.GLCzone.com Dear Jennifer,

Your words are beautiful as well. I’m so glad to hear you found what you needed to be on a great, healthy, and happy pathway to peace.

Thank you for your comment.

All my best,
Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
http://www.GLCzone.com

]]> By: Jennifer http://docinthebiz.com/blog/building-self-worth-and-loving-yourself/#comment-4047 Jennifer Mon, 29 Sep 2008 17:15:27 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=86#comment-4047 That was so beautiful!! He's got a good head on his shoulders. It reminds me - I have experienced some loneliness in my life (not in my marriage) recently and finally came to the conclusion that God had put me in this situation to grow to love myself and Him more so that I could better offer/give of myself to others. It's not that I didn't like myself, just saw it as an opportunity for more and more growth and self love and more appreciation of God's blessings. That was so beautiful!! He’s got a good head on his shoulders.

It reminds me - I have experienced some loneliness in my life (not in my marriage) recently and finally came to the conclusion that God had put me in this situation to grow to love myself and Him more so that I could better offer/give of myself to others. It’s not that I didn’t like myself, just saw it as an opportunity for more and more growth and self love and more appreciation of God’s blessings.

]]> By: Dr. KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/building-self-worth-and-loving-yourself/#comment-4006 Dr. KC Sun, 28 Sep 2008 18:46:00 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=86#comment-4006 Dear Lim Ee Hai, What you said means the world! Thank you. Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com www.GLCzone.com Dear Lim Ee Hai,

What you said means the world! Thank you.

Dr. KC
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]]> By: Lim Ee Hai http://docinthebiz.com/blog/building-self-worth-and-loving-yourself/#comment-3760 Lim Ee Hai Fri, 26 Sep 2008 16:15:02 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=86#comment-3760 This is a very touching message. What more can I say? This is a very touching message. What more can I say?

]]> By: Dr. KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/building-self-worth-and-loving-yourself/#comment-3026 Dr. KC Sun, 14 Sep 2008 12:51:40 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=86#comment-3026 Dear Geoff, Thank you for the consideration. It would be an honor. All my best, Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com www.GLCzone.com Dear Geoff,

Thank you for the consideration. It would be an honor.

All my best,

Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
http://www.GLCzone.com

]]> By: Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge http://docinthebiz.com/blog/building-self-worth-and-loving-yourself/#comment-2768 Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge Thu, 11 Sep 2008 10:13:22 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=86#comment-2768 I think your blog is great, and I would like to feature you on the new Wellsphere. We feature only the best health bloggers on our WellPages, which are special pages that our Health Knowledge Engine crafts to give our users answers to their health questions. We would feature you on all the pages on topics that our knowledge engine finds are related to your blog postings. Because we have over 2 million visitors each month (and we are growing rapidly), you would benefit from an expanded audience for your writings. If you would like us to feature you, send me an email to Dr.Rutledge@wellsphere.com Cheers, Geoff I think your blog is great, and I would like to feature you on the new Wellsphere. We feature only the best health bloggers on our WellPages, which are special pages that our Health Knowledge Engine crafts to give our users answers to their health questions. We would feature you on all the pages on topics that our knowledge engine finds are related to your blog postings. Because we have over 2 million visitors each month (and we are growing rapidly), you would benefit from an expanded audience for your writings. If you would like us to feature you, send me an email to Dr.Rutledge@wellsphere.com

Cheers, Geoff

]]> By: Dr. KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/building-self-worth-and-loving-yourself/#comment-2691 Dr. KC Tue, 09 Sep 2008 18:18:42 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=86#comment-2691 Dear Tim, Thanks so much for your comment. I would love to share here what I shared with Benny when he commented to my article on Digg: @ Benny- Nothing like a great inspirational story for sure!! Perhaps this gentleman is not looking for a woman at this point, but ways to love himself and find his self worth. The wedding band can act as a visual reminder any time he may say something negative to himself. Sometimes visual reminders can be more powerful than any other outside force when we need an outside force to help us inside. Sometimes we need reminders to keep up with the positive self talk. Just as if you were to write a positive affirmation on a yellow sticky (for example) and post it to see and read everytime you need that little push to not get down about who you are. Differences of opinion are great, but I cannot see how this coping skill is something you condemn. In my opinion, whatever works for a person to help them through hard times or to give them strength when they need it, etc. is wonderful. There is no right or wrong, black or white. It's what works for each unique and individual person. Just IMO. Doc KC You coaches always give me a run for my money! LOL! And I love it! Thank you again for your great comment. Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com www.GLCzone.com Dear Tim,

Thanks so much for your comment. I would love to share here what I shared with Benny when he commented to my article on Digg:

@ Benny- Nothing like a great inspirational story for sure!!

Perhaps this gentleman is not looking for a woman at this point, but ways to love himself and find his self worth. The wedding band can act as a visual reminder any time he may say something negative to himself. Sometimes visual reminders can be more powerful than any other outside force when we need an outside force to help us inside. Sometimes we need reminders to keep up with the positive self talk. Just as if you were to write a positive affirmation on a yellow sticky (for example) and post it to see and read everytime you need that little push to not get down about who you are.

Differences of opinion are great, but I cannot see how this coping skill is something you condemn. In my opinion, whatever works for a person to help them through hard times or to give them strength when they need it, etc. is wonderful. There is no right or wrong, black or white. It’s what works for each unique and individual person. Just IMO.

Doc KC

You coaches always give me a run for my money! LOL! And I love it!
Thank you again for your great comment.

Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
http://www.GLCzone.com

]]> By: Tim Brownson http://docinthebiz.com/blog/building-self-worth-and-loving-yourself/#comment-2688 Tim Brownson Tue, 09 Sep 2008 16:53:14 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=86#comment-2688 Goot agree with everybody else, without self-love it's difficult to love anybody else. The danger is that people get the wrong end of the stick and think that self-love = arrogance or pomposity or just selfishness. Not so and this guy got that. Having said that, I'm not sure about the wedding ring thing. Isn't the likely to reduce his chances of attracting a mate, at least aone that is likely to be faithful one? Couldn't he have just tattooed it on his arm or written a few post-it notes ;-) Goot agree with everybody else, without self-love it’s difficult to love anybody else. The danger is that people get the wrong end of the stick and think that self-love = arrogance or pomposity or just selfishness. Not so and this guy got that.

Having said that, I’m not sure about the wedding ring thing. Isn’t the likely to reduce his chances of attracting a mate, at least aone that is likely to be faithful one? Couldn’t he have just tattooed it on his arm or written a few post-it notes ;-)

]]> By: Dr. KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/building-self-worth-and-loving-yourself/#comment-2679 Dr. KC Tue, 09 Sep 2008 14:54:02 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=86#comment-2679 Dear Jack, Thank you for your comment and I'm glad you enjoyed my post! All my best, Dr. KC http://www.DOCintheBiz.com http://www.GLCzone.com Dear Jack,

Thank you for your comment and I’m glad you enjoyed my post!

All my best,
Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
http://www.GLCzone.com

]]> By: Dr. KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/building-self-worth-and-loving-yourself/#comment-2678 Dr. KC Tue, 09 Sep 2008 14:53:17 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=86#comment-2678 Dear Irene, I really enjoyed your response. Thank you for commenting on this article. I agree with the idea that taking self love to a level that makes one a narcissist is another story. That’s not the kind of self love I talk about. I talk about the kind that gives one the confidence and feelings of self worth to make him or her be able to accomplish the things in life they want and to succeed in what they set out to do, to fulfill realistic dreams and goals, to be able to form healthy relationships, and most of all to find balance in all aspects of life leading to happiness and peace. We never want to be codependent and only do for others when it hurts us. We can avoid that by having self love. With self love and a good idea of our self worth, we can do for others unconditionally without ever becoming codependent! Thank you again for your great comment. All my best, Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com www.GLCzone.com Dear Irene,

I really enjoyed your response. Thank you for commenting on this article.

I agree with the idea that taking self love to a level that makes one a narcissist is another story. That’s not the kind of self love I talk about. I talk about the kind that gives one the confidence and feelings of self worth to make him or her be able to accomplish the things in life they want and to succeed in what they set out to do, to fulfill realistic dreams and goals, to be able to form healthy relationships, and most of all to find balance in all aspects of life leading to happiness and peace.

We never want to be codependent and only do for others when it hurts us. We can avoid that by having self love. With self love and a good idea of our self worth, we can do for others unconditionally without ever becoming codependent!

Thank you again for your great comment.

All my best,
Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
http://www.GLCzone.com

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