Comments for DOCintheBiz http://docinthebiz.com/blog THINK WELL to FEEL WELL...It's All About Being Emotionally Healthy! Fri, 18 May 2012 06:54:39 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 Comment on The Anxiety Disorder Client-Apprehensive to Treatment? by Doc KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/the-anxiety-disorder-client-apprehensive-to-treatment/#comment-145105 Doc KC Mon, 02 Apr 2012 23:19:59 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=48#comment-145105 Dear Lisa, Thank you for your email. I offer online psychotherapy, but recently the link to the service went down. I need to get it fixed. We are producing a highly inspirational film, "Namaste". Have you seen Namaste's official website? If not, have a look! Please send anyone you know there who may have a vested interested in the cause & would like to be a part of this highly inspirational film through production or help in donating to the cause! Namaste shares deep raw emotion and genuinely depicts human triumph, while at the same time educates the world & increases awareness about hearing loss & the power of one’s attitude & fortitude. www.NamasteTheMovie.com Thank you most sincerely, Dr. KC Dear Lisa,
Thank you for your email. I offer online psychotherapy, but recently the link to the service went down. I need to get it fixed.

We are producing a highly inspirational film, “Namaste”. Have you seen Namaste’s official website? If not, have a look! Please send anyone you know there who may have a vested interested in the cause & would like to be a part of this highly inspirational film through production or help in donating to the cause!

Namaste shares deep raw emotion and genuinely depicts human triumph, while at the same time educates the world & increases awareness about hearing loss & the power of one’s attitude & fortitude.

http://www.NamasteTheMovie.com

Thank you most sincerely,
Dr. KC

]]> Comment on The Anxiety Disorder Client-Apprehensive to Treatment? by Lisa Goldstein Interview http://docinthebiz.com/blog/the-anxiety-disorder-client-apprehensive-to-treatment/#comment-144464 Lisa Goldstein Interview Sat, 31 Mar 2012 03:22:51 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=48#comment-144464 It's a shame you don't have a donate button! I'd certainly donate to this fantastic blog! I guess for now i'll settle for book-marking and adding your RSS feed to my Google account. I look forward to brand new updates and will talk about this website with my Facebook group. Talk soon! It’s a shame you don’t have a donate button! I’d certainly donate to this fantastic blog! I guess for now i’ll settle for book-marking and adding your RSS feed to my Google account. I look forward to brand new updates and will talk about this website with my Facebook group. Talk soon!

]]> Comment on My Girlfriend is Suicidal by Doc KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/my-girlfriend-is-suicidal/#comment-144095 Doc KC Thu, 29 Mar 2012 20:23:32 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=77#comment-144095 If you suspect anyone at all is intending to hurt themselves or someone else, you need to immediately call 911. It truly is that simple. Please write privately if you have more detailed questions. All my best, Doc KC If you suspect anyone at all is intending to hurt themselves or someone else, you need to immediately call 911. It truly is that simple.

Please write privately if you have more detailed questions.

All my best,
Doc KC

]]> Comment on My Girlfriend is Suicidal by Kacy http://docinthebiz.com/blog/my-girlfriend-is-suicidal/#comment-143661 Kacy Wed, 28 Mar 2012 04:33:21 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=77#comment-143661 My girlfriend of 12 years has been talking about ending her life for several months now. She is losing control of herself. Lots of different medications for sleeping, antidepressants, joint pain, hypothyroidism, and many I'm sure I don't know about for years. She has 4 kids that are 13,13, 15, and 15. They have become too much for her to handle. Our relationship has been bad for a few years. We can't seem to agree on anything or just be normal together. She seems irrational and unreasonable. She loses her temper very quickly and makes definitive statements like "leave me alone" all the time now, but seems to change her mood after a while every time. I can't trust anything she says. And I can't really say anything to her because she takes whatever it is a critical and mean. I believe she definitely needs therapy but she's mentioned "ending the pain", and "God wouldn't let me have this much pain" in the last two days or so. What do I do? We are not married, so I don't know what authority I will have to place her in a treatment facility. Help.. My girlfriend of 12 years has been talking about ending her life for several months now. She is losing control of herself. Lots of different medications for sleeping, antidepressants, joint pain, hypothyroidism, and many I’m sure I don’t know about for years. She has 4 kids that are 13,13, 15, and 15. They have become too much for her to handle. Our relationship has been bad for a few years. We can’t seem to agree on anything or just be normal together. She seems irrational and unreasonable. She loses her temper very quickly and makes definitive statements like “leave me alone” all the time now, but seems to change her mood after a while every time. I can’t trust anything she says. And I can’t really say anything to her because she takes whatever it is a critical and mean. I believe she definitely needs therapy but she’s mentioned “ending the pain”, and “God wouldn’t let me have this much pain” in the last two days or so. What do I do? We are not married, so I don’t know what authority I will have to place her in a treatment facility. Help..

]]> Comment on The Anxiety Disorder Client-Apprehensive to Treatment? by Isaias Rogerson http://docinthebiz.com/blog/the-anxiety-disorder-client-apprehensive-to-treatment/#comment-142982 Isaias Rogerson Sat, 24 Mar 2012 19:39:05 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=48#comment-142982 I’ve been exploring for a little bit for any high-quality articles or blog posts on this sort of area . Exploring in Yahoo I at last stumbled upon this website. Reading this information So i am happy to convey that I have a very good uncanny feeling I discovered exactly what I needed. I most certainly will make sure to do not forget this web site and give it a glance regularly. I’ve been exploring for a little bit for any high-quality articles or blog posts on this sort of area . Exploring in Yahoo I at last stumbled upon this website. Reading this information So i am happy to convey that I have a very good uncanny feeling I discovered exactly what I needed. I most certainly will make sure to do not forget this web site and give it a glance regularly.

]]> Comment on How to Find a Good Therapist by Lily http://docinthebiz.com/blog/how-to-find-a-good-therapist/#comment-141438 Lily Sun, 18 Mar 2012 01:39:21 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=37#comment-141438 How do I know when to end therapy? I went 30 days (max. allowed to go before case is closed) without seeing a therapist to see if I could handle it because that is what it felt like it was going to be with the upcoming switch to a new one until we build trust and rapport. Surprisingly, I did quite well with the 30 days-for the most part. This was testing to see if I could handle it when nobody was there for me to pick me up when I fall, which it sometimes felt like anyway with a therapist-okay, a huge majority of the time (sorry to say). A part of me is grateful of that in a sense, even though it was and still is beyond challenging. The true power lies within the individual (client). Perhaps that is a therapeutic method used not to let the client rely on the therapist that much, but honestly, sometimes that was not beneficial to the client. There has to be a balance and that balance was a bit extreme. Then I saw the new therapist for 2 sessions (for two weeks). Now, I do not have another appointment for 2 weeks. I can honestly say that I do not think I am going to miss it. How do I know if it is because a) I have not made a strong connection with the therapist yet or b) I am over therapy. Maybe it is both a and b. Where do I draw the line; what factor will help me determine which is stronger? Then again, I do not think the new therapist fits with my style, based upon previous experiences (9). How long do I wait to give this more of a chance? Should I be bored during therapy, which I am with this new lady? I know I should challenge myself and have been, but isn't it a two way street of both the therapist and client working together? By the way, a response it not needed, but it is just food for thought. Insight is welcomed. Thank you. How do I know when to end therapy? I went 30 days (max. allowed to go before case is closed) without seeing a therapist to see if I could handle it because that is what it felt like it was going to be with the upcoming switch to a new one until we build trust and rapport. Surprisingly, I did quite well with the 30 days-for the most part. This was testing to see if I could handle it when nobody was there for me to pick me up when I fall, which it sometimes felt like anyway with a therapist-okay, a huge majority of the time (sorry to say). A part of me is grateful of that in a sense, even though it was and still is beyond challenging. The true power lies within the individual (client). Perhaps that is a therapeutic method used not to let the client rely on the therapist that much, but honestly, sometimes that was not beneficial to the client. There has to be a balance and that balance was a bit extreme. Then I saw the new therapist for 2 sessions (for two weeks). Now, I do not have another appointment for 2 weeks. I can honestly say that I do not think I am going to miss it. How do I know if it is because a) I have not made a strong connection with the therapist yet or b) I am over therapy. Maybe it is both a and b. Where do I draw the line; what factor will help me determine which is stronger? Then again, I do not think the new therapist fits with my style, based upon previous experiences (9). How long do I wait to give this more of a chance? Should I be bored during therapy, which I am with this new lady? I know I should challenge myself and have been, but isn’t it a two way street of both the therapist and client working together? By the way, a response it not needed, but it is just food for thought. Insight is welcomed.

Thank you.

]]> Comment on Abusive Relationships: Should I Stay or Should I Go? by Lyn http://docinthebiz.com/blog/abusive-relationships-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go/#comment-139515 Lyn Fri, 09 Mar 2012 16:19:18 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=94#comment-139515 I have been an in abusive marriage realtionship for about 11 years but thankfully it physical abuse has stopped about four years ago. I have two children. In trying to deal with it - the abuse I have thrown myself into everything from almost completing my masters to being the best mom I can to my kids, and I have done well so far. When one looks at me they see that this is an achieved woman who can handle almost everything that can be thrown at her. It may seem to other readers that I have no problem but the truth it I'm broken inside and everytime I think of my situation when alone I cry without control. My husband would bring his upbringing for the reason he lacked slef control and God knows he has tried his best in turing things around. However we are very different and right now I just want to pack up and kids and leave. He sees this as me being ungrateful for the changes he has made but in my view it should not have happened in the first place. For some reason he cannot take into consideration that I have been shattered and broken into millions of pieces emotionally. A simple argument makes me remember all the blows and nasty things he has said to me. I need your advice on if I need time away from him to be healed since I think he may be a constant reminder of our negative past or do I leave totally bcause I still feel like a victim many times of psychological and emotional abuse. I have been an in abusive marriage realtionship for about 11 years but thankfully it physical abuse has stopped about four years ago. I have two children.

In trying to deal with it - the abuse I have thrown myself into everything from almost completing my masters to being the best mom I can to my kids, and I have done well so far.

When one looks at me they see that this is an achieved woman who can handle almost everything that can be thrown at her. It may seem to other readers that I have no problem but the truth it I’m broken inside and everytime I think of my situation when alone I cry without control. My husband would bring his upbringing for the reason he lacked slef control and God knows he has tried his best in turing things around. However we are very different and right now I just want to pack up and kids and leave. He sees this as me being ungrateful for the changes he has made but in my view it should not have happened in the first place.

For some reason he cannot take into consideration that I have been shattered and broken into millions of pieces emotionally. A simple argument makes me remember all the blows and nasty things he has said to me.

I need your advice on if I need time away from him to be healed since I think he may be a constant reminder of our negative past or do I leave totally bcause I still feel like a victim many times of psychological and emotional abuse.

]]> Comment on Abusive Relationships: Should I Stay or Should I Go? by Marvin MOnti http://docinthebiz.com/blog/abusive-relationships-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go/#comment-139499 Marvin MOnti Fri, 09 Mar 2012 15:06:12 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=94#comment-139499 I was the (male) one physically abusing the 'other' ...but I believe I was acting out the negative influences of my past... since coming to terms with that I have made strides towards changing those negative attributes. I was the vigilanty of my high school towards abusive guys ,can you believe that? I used to hunt down fellas like that ....even went to jail for aggrivated battery and spent 4 yrs on a charge for beating the convicted sex offender(on probation) that assaulted my then girlfriend. I am an american raised born (from 5mths old) born on a caribbean island so I was sent back after my time was served. With nothing to my name here I started a new life . Got married to an adventist (because she got pregnant out of weddlock) who is south american born and raised with little or now influence from the american culture I came from so that wasnt going to be the easiest ride to begin with. I had a 'for old time sake' with an ex during a break up period before marriage which produced a child as well and in avoiding having to confront the outside situation i lied and argued out of immaturity and lack of a proper support system. After numerous physical fights etc. it began to click ...what happen to the old me , the protector of the abused? I have been (physical) incident free for a couple years now , at most cursing when I get fustrated that i cant seem to get away from my transgressions . She says shes forgiven me but throws herself into her children 10 and 8 yrs old as well as her degree and work, with in my opinion no time devoted to getting over the past of which I sedate myself on a daily to numb myself from the guilt of having changed into the monster that I was . Yearning for a fresh start but unable to get one what is she or I to do . How do i pay her back for my wrongs....by letting her go? I was the (male) one physically abusing the ‘other’ …but I believe I was acting out the negative influences of my past… since coming to terms with that I have made strides towards changing those negative attributes. I was the vigilanty of my high school towards abusive guys ,can you believe that? I used to hunt down fellas like that ….even went to jail for aggrivated battery and spent 4 yrs on a charge for beating the convicted sex offender(on probation) that assaulted my then girlfriend. I am an american raised born (from 5mths old) born on a caribbean island so I was sent back after my time was served. With nothing to my name here I started a new life . Got married to an adventist (because she got pregnant out of weddlock) who is south american born and raised with little or now influence from the american culture I came from so that wasnt going to be the easiest ride to begin with. I had a ‘for old time sake’ with an ex during a break up period before marriage which produced a child as well and in avoiding having to confront the outside situation i lied and argued out of immaturity and lack of a proper support system. After numerous physical fights etc. it began to click …what happen to the old me , the protector of the abused? I have been (physical) incident free for a couple years now , at most cursing when I get fustrated that i cant seem to get away from my transgressions . She says shes forgiven me but throws herself into her children 10 and 8 yrs old as well as her degree and work, with in my opinion no time devoted to getting over the past of which I sedate myself on a daily to numb myself from the guilt of having changed into the monster that I was . Yearning for a fresh start but unable to get one what is she or I to do . How do i pay her back for my wrongs….by letting her go?

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]]> Comment on Abusive Relationships: Should I Stay or Should I Go? by Kory Kostura http://docinthebiz.com/blog/abusive-relationships-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go/#comment-137127 Kory Kostura Tue, 28 Feb 2012 04:10:44 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=94#comment-137127 Thanks for the sensible critique. Me and my neighbor were just preparing to do some research about this. We got a grab a book from our area library but I think I learned more from this post. I'm very glad to see such magnificent info being shared freely out there. Thanks for the sensible critique. Me and my neighbor were just preparing to do some research about this. We got a grab a book from our area library but I think I learned more from this post. I’m very glad to see such magnificent info being shared freely out there.

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