by KC Kelly, Ph.D., LMHC

Questions and Answers at www.DOCintheBiz.com

Question: Dear Doc KC,

I’ve been a single woman for over 4 years now after ending a 5 year marriage. I’ve dated since then, but only frogs and I’m really ready to meet my prince. What advice might you have to give me? Anything would be appreciated. Thanks so much. I trust you so much!

Answer: Now, I’m not saying that if you follow these three (3) steps all of your dreams will come true within the next week or so. There really is no set formula or magic potion to “dream catching”. What I can say; however, is that if you do follow these steps, I think you will find yourself to be a much happier and healthier person all around…and when you’re happy and healthy, good things seem to find you. That is my experience anyway. So, here goes…

1. Loving yourself is the key to accomplishing goals and creating healthy relationships. High self worth gives you the confidence you need to take the right chances and to make the right choices for what is best for you in career, friendships, and love. It also helps you to avoid making the same bad decisions you may have made in the past. High self esteem allows you to feel good about yourself and feel happy. When you’re happy, it often radiates to all those around you. People tend to gravitate towards and like happy and positive people. Smile at someone and watch as they just naturally smile back.

2. After that comes attitude and frame of mind. Your attitude and the way you approach life and treat others will determine the way your life turns out and the people that find their way to you. You can be positive or negative. Try them both and see the outcome. I believe that you’ll find staying positive no matter what obstacles get in your way will take you farther in the game of life. No, no one said it was easy, but just do it anyway. When something or someone annoys you, try to laugh it off. Surround yourself with people who have positive healthy attitudes.

3. Lastly, believing is key. To truly believe that you will accomplish what you set out to do and find the person with whom you were meant to be is so important to seeing it all come true. Patience, persistence and believing will ultimately be what gets you what you want. Keep a good support system around you of people who believe in you and your goals. Don’t let others pull you down or think you’re selfish because there is something that you want for YOUR life. There is room for everything and everyone as long as you make that time. Those that love you unconditionally will understand.

 

All my best,

Dr. KC

www.DOCintheBiz.com

www.GLCzone.com

 

This article is copyrighted by DOCintheBiz.com and may be respectfully re-distributed for non-commercial educational purposes granted that website link and author credit remain intact.