17 Apr
Posted by: admin in: Attitude, Emotional Health, Mind/Body Connection
By KC Kelly, Ph.D., LMHC
Is it all in our thinking? Once we begin to understand the mind/body connection, I think we’ll have a much better understanding of just how much psychology plays a part in our everyday emotional and physical health and wellness. Health is not just about working out and eating well. It’s also about taking care of our minds. Our mental health is just as important, if not equally important than our physical health because of the way in which they are ultimately connected.
By finding the right balance needed to keep our mental and physical health strong, we can have some say in determining our destiny towards good overall health and happiness.
Our bodies respond to the way we act. The way we act is in direct correlation with the way we think and feel. And this is what we call the mind/body connection.
When dealing with a stressful situation or a stressful period of time in your life, did you ever develop headaches, abdominal pain or upset stomach, high blood pressure, insomnia, increase or loss of appetite? These are just some of the physical symptoms that prove overtly that there is something not right with your emotional health. Somewhere, your emotional health is out of balance causing your body to physically react. Again, this is called the mind/body connection
During the days when doctors and scientists were frowned upon if they did not stay stringently in the realm of the observable and strictly quantifiable, people thought there was a distinct divide between mind and body. Even the 17th-century philosopher/scientist and the Father of Modern Philosophy, Descartes, in an attempt to study this metaphysical phenomena, was stopped by the Roman Catholic Church, who restricted him to the study of human anatomy, leaving the mind and body to the care of the church. It wasn’t until the 1970’s when doctors and scientists began to provide irrefutable data showing that it is indeed true that mind and body ARE connected in an undeniable way. Do we really need these ancient philosophers or even today’s doctors to tell us this is so? Perhaps we do. If you suffer from daily headaches, for example, have you ever thought about what may be causing these headaches? Have you ever thought about the possibility that the stress from your job, for instance, is what has been causing you to live with these awful headaches that persistently impede your daily activities?
Every second we have a thought. Every thought that we have releases chemicals called neurotransmitters into our body. With the brain being most enigmatic organ of the body, scientists and doctors have not yet been able to perfect and fully understand what causes the mind to have such an effect upon the body and our physical health. We may be looking YEARS into the future before such answers are found.
One thing remains true, at least in my humble opinion: We need the contentment of the mind to help us in our every day strides towards overall health and ultimate happiness in our lives. It seems that the answer to the question, “Is it all in our thinking?” is yes!
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20 Responses
Dr. Nicole Sundene
21|Apr|2008 1Absolutely! Couldn’t agree with this more. Change your thinking. Change your life!
Monica Pradhan
22|Apr|2008 2Another intelligent, inspiring, soulful site by KC! Take a bow!
Eric Green
22|Apr|2008 3As a Professional Bowler, and a Single Father I expereince many of mind/body connections you have mentioned here. From a sports psychology standpoint, it is imperative to eliminate distraction and develop a deeper, more intense focus. (not that I am a sports psychologist, but it works!
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As a parent I feel it is much more common place to have several plates spinning at the same time. My son has Autism and I find that it it easier to focus on his needs as they are constant. My daughters are growing older and are becoming much more independant, where my son is possibly a little more dependant as he is developing more curiosities.
You are certainly as wise as you are beautiful and I respect your opinions very much.
Benny Greenberg
22|Apr|2008 4Our thoughts control our actions. Control your mind - control your thoughts and then control your actions <– transitive property. Mind control is body control.
Positive begets positive
Give positive get positive
Get positive give positive
Sometimes it is so simple! Now all we have to do is make it happen, and you know you can!
Benny
http://www.ya-ttitude.com
Dr. KC
22|Apr|2008 5Dear Eric,
For certain, many tasks involving endurance are all about keeping an intense focus on what you are trying to achieve. In sports or even in keeping focused writing a dissertation.
Your children are extremely lucky to have such a wise father. As a behavior specialist, I do know the challenges you and your son face and I think you sound like an amazing dad. I have worked with individuals on all levels of the autistic spectrum and find them to be the most beautiful souls. Yes, a lot of extra work is needed including time, patience, and consistency, but all autistic children can learn no matter how low or high functioning they are. Never forget that!
Thanks for your comment! Keep reading!
Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
Dr. KC
22|Apr|2008 6Benny,
As simplistic in nature as are your words…they are equally as true!
Thanks for your comment. Keep reading.
Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
june cohen
22|Apr|2008 7Strength is what we need and is what we get from Dr. KC. She’s special in the big world of therapists. She’s different.
Mario Laverne
22|Apr|2008 8June, I am glad you appreciate Dr KC as much as I do. She certainly has helped me. Yes, she has a special and different approach to help us find the answers we are looking for from within ourselves.
Dr. Nicole Sundene
22|Apr|2008 9Hooray comments! This is going to be a happening place in no time! Looks fab in here…you should give yourself a huge hug for all the great work!!
Kudos
Derek
23|Apr|2008 10Interesting blog, just came across from Blog Catalogue.
In zazen (Zen meditation) the discipline is to still the mind by focusing on the breathing in and out of the hara (lower abdomen) area. The breath is without and then within and gradually the inner and outer disappear as mind and body co-ordinate into a state of just being.
Derek
Dr. KC
23|Apr|2008 11Dr. Nicole,
Thank you! Where would I have been without you?? Kudos to you too, my fellow colleague!
Thanks for your comment! Keep reading!
Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
Dr. KC
23|Apr|2008 12Dear Derek,
I did attempt zazen myself, but I do have to admit that I need more practice and a lot more intense concentration to really reap the full benefits of this kind of Zen meditation.
I was told to imagine a bucket deep in my lower belly area. Every time I took a deep breath, I was to imagine the air going in, falling in the bucket and then coming back out as I exhaled. I tried immensely to concentrate and follow my OWN advice to work on relaxation techniques to soothe my busy hectic life; however, whenever I would hear the cat’s feet walking across the carpet, I would start to laugh and have to begin my concentration all over again.
This leads to the comment that Eric shared about how imperative it is to eliminate distraction and develop a deeper, more intense focus. I, myself need to work on this more too!
Thanks for your comment. Keep reading!
Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
T-roy
24|Apr|2008 13Dr. KC and everyone: Thanks for sharing, I so enjoy reading each comment and I do look forward to future conversations with you all. Yes, kudos to all!! This is a great place to come.
Dr. KC
24|Apr|2008 14Dear T-roy,
I want to thank YOU for sharing. Your feedback and comments on all the posts here are always filled with insight and wisdom and they are much appreciated by all who read them! We all have a lot we can learn from you!
Please keep them coming!!
Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
Lim Ee Hai
25|Apr|2008 15We have only one brain, but many thoughts. I agree that to control this brain of ours, we need just to stay focus. Ultimately we are the master of our brain and our thinking. By discipling ourself, our strength in controlling our thinking will be improved over time. I have been telling myself of this to save valuable time and not to deviate and do unnecessary thing. However, at times, I do pamper myself and allow abit of “off-tracking” to enjoy the surrounding. Thanks for the sharing in your post. I like it.
Dr. KC
25|Apr|2008 16Dear Lim Ee Hai,
You seem very on target here as to how to live a happy lifestyle. You mention a nice balance of staying focused and in control of your thinking to help with time management and getting things done; however, you also stop to “smell the roses.” I think that’s wonderful!
Thank you for your comment and I hope you’ll continue to keep reading.
Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
Laurie
19|Jun|2008 17In this article you are really discussing the affects the mind has on the body but what about when it is the reverse, when the body affects the mind? This is a once a month struggle for me. My hormones get the best of me and that one week in the month is a killer. That week, I am down, and I will turn to additive behaviors which are not really that bad but feels really compulsive and out of control. I feel overwhelmed with things and I feel dissatisfied with my relationships which are really good in my mind the other three weeks of the month. It took me a while to figure out what was going on as I still have hormones but that’s all. I had surgery and had my uterus removed several years ago. Now I just try to discount my feelings and think, “I can get through this week. Hang in there. It will all look different in a few days.” Got any advice here?
Doc KC
19|Jun|2008 18Dear Laurie,
I think that the mind and body are in constant contact with each other, affecting the way we think and feel at all times. That is what this article suggests. It makes sense that when one doesn’t feel well, he/she will react emotionally or behaviorally. An example of this is when a baby cries. It usually means he or she is feeling something physical, be it hunger, feeling tired, or wet.
The fact that you react and feel overwhelmed during the one week/month is indeed another example of how the body can affect the mind. It does not sound out of the ordinary to me. The idea that you turn to addictive or unhealthy behaviors which affect yourself and your relationship is another story. I would definitely suggest seeking therapeutic advice about learning specific strategies of what you can do to help. The example you gave of “self talk” is a wonderful coping skill. If it’s not enough, however, you can find other things to do to keep yourself and your relationship whole. You may even want to talk to your medical doctor about something you can take to help with the pain or mood swings.
I would also be happy to discuss your issues in more detail at DOCintheBiz if you wish.
Thank you so much for your comment and sharing with us here.
Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com
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